Heartbreaker vs Heartbroken

Common scenario,

If we talk about heartbreaker, semua org akn marah and semua org akn blame this particular person y berani memematahruikkan hati org lain. ~Okeyyy...tak semua... mostly.

and,

if we talk about the other person lak, org-y-hati-dia-dibreakkan, most people ak tlg simpati, pujuk and tlg kutuk si heartbreaker y cause this person to become heartbroken.

People around me, there are some y jatuh dlm kategori heartbroken, some both and some the heartbreaker.

and most y jadi miss/mrs/mr heartbroken tu, end up afraid to commit in any relationship.(i said most sbb ada je y tak serik2..ngehngheh..=P) ~but then, kdg2 ada y fikir that if you stop trying, then you'll never meet the right one.mcm ala2 cite he's just not that into you tu, which is not a bad choice kn? different people has different ways of thinking and doing things.

“I may dissect each little thing and put myself out there so much but at least that means that I still care. Oh! You’ve think you won because women are

expendable to you. You may not get hurt or make an ass of yourself that way but you don’t fall in love that way either. You have not won. You’re alone. I may do a lot of stupid shit but I’m still a lot closer to love than you are."

~He's just not that into you

But then there is also people i know that fall into the heartbreaker punye kategori,end up takut utk commit and give chance to any relationship yang involve hati dan perasaan ni. (tipuuuu laaaa.... da la membreak kn hati org lain, them pura2 takut..!! huh!- typical thought about si heartbreaker)

hm..who are us to judge this particular person's punya feeling even if the act yg this person commit is, hmm..what you called it? wrong?

What if, her situation is that she give chance to people who wanted to know her, and its end up with that guy fall for her(noted that the guy sgt la baik.), but she, on the other hand, x berjaya develop any feeling to the guy.( do u expect for the-she to force herself to fall for the guy?) And this happen not once but more smpai dia sndri da takut na bagi chance dkt org. Scared that she hurt someone else pulak. And she keep wondering, "why is it so hard to fall in love? kenapa hati dy keras mcm batuuu?"

hm.. i guess maybe she keep meeting the wrong person, and one day when the right one comes, maybe, maybe her heart won't be that 'hard'.

So, don't judge people, the heartbreaker or the heartbroken , things happen with a reason(or reasons) and without knowing the reasons, kite ta bole ckp sape slh and sape btul. Kdg2, no one are at fault, it just that, things happen, things change.

but we can be mad, we can cry, we can because we are a normal human being.

nota kaki: i am a heart.....~